It had been a long-standing challenge – practising the knowledge. It is an established documented fact (come on, I documented in this blog here….) that the outcome of any event depends on the response to that event. I am yet to put that knowledge to use 100%.
I had two such events in the last 24 hours….making me introspect on how long it is going to take to get ourselves practice what we know….
The first incident made me realize the need to strongly emphasize in my communications on how much I value my ideals. While I have my ideals, I also believe that it is an individual’s prerogative of having their own ideals (rights and wrongs) which will vary with every individual. Oxymoron belief!
In this context, it becomes very important to react to someone’s thoughts in the right way – communicating the intent is extremely critical – needs excellent clarity of thoughts and the choice of right words. “my ideals are different. while what you say/do are different from mine, I appreciate it is your prerogative to do/what you think as long as it is beyond my boundary”.
The second incident made me realize that in the fit of the moment, you lose your knowledge and just react to a situation in a wrong way – your anxiety kills your knowledge and just after that few minutes you kick yourself for reacting to a situation without applying your knowledge …… phew!
In both the incidents, a particular value or reaction of an individual is not in alignment with my thoughts/values. While I can still look at the big picture and appreciate how much value each individual carry, I am still a long way in ensuring my confident reaction to the specific incidents.
This challenge is really dodging me…..knowledge and practice!!
I could not resist sharing this article with many – It is a truly inspiring story and I am amazed on how much the human will can take control of one’s life……….This is an article in CNN’s money about Sean Maloney – head of Intel China.
This is an article in CNN’s money about Sean Maloney – head of Intel China.
When he lost his words due to stroke, he had only his will power to get back – “I’ve trained the right side of my brain to take over speech, normally a function of the left side. It’s the hardest thing I have ever done.”……….so, you can train your brain to do what you like….:)
His advice to all…..”Never give up,” he says. “No matter what anyone says, you can attain your goals if you never give up.”
Inspirational! Makes us take responsibility of our life!
It is a Saturday morning monsoon fury – the rain gods are all out!. I am standing near the block steps and wondering whether i should go back to get the umbrella before i walk out. It is a short task – to get the fresh green spinach from the vegetable vendor, who brings them on the push cart. He parks right outside the compound gate.
Though I like to get wet in the rain, I decide to go back and get the umbrella (ofcourse, the thought of drying the clothes on a monsoon day influences my decision). There are no other buyers and the vegetable vendor has covered his head with a polythene cover…he smiles “What shall I give you?”. The spinach is all wet and muddy. I make my conversation with him “Rains in the morning are always tough! it will be tough for you today to stand in the rains. Few customers may not come out. It will be better if it rains in the afternoons”.
He smiles and in a matter of fact tone says ” Let it rain. Only if it rains, we will continue to get such green vegetables. So, let it rain. Getting wet is good. We can not control nature and command when to rain. Nature knows what is best for us. Let it rain.”.
It hits me that he has mastered what i am struggling to do.
With all my education, intelligence and acquired knowledge, I took years to realize that COMPLAINING is not an option. After realizing, i am still working to practice it!!….
And here is the vegetable seller, probably younger to me by age, not even stepped into a college……….who very easily practices it!!
What life teaches you is never taught in any books!!